Okay. So, I've been trying to figure out just what the heck(stupid NSFW), is going on with him.
(Yes, I made two parts.. just because one looooooonnnnnnnnngggg entry would be TOO much for some people!)
So.. I turned to the mummer's of fubar-land. For those of you not familiar with fubar.com, those are the members that spend their days in the mumm portion of the site. MUMM's are where people ask questions, and the mummer's give their ideas and input. (Not always productive input, but input none-the-less.)
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Here was my MUMM:
"To put a long story short":
My boyfriend had to move back home to his mother's house in Nebraska right before my birthday last year. This was due to consequences he caused by some unsavory actions.
Steadily since then, he's been talking to me less and less. He's also been delaying visits, and making me feel like an inconsiderate, rude, thoughtless, unloving girlfriend by twisting my actions, making them sound horrible and repeating them back at me. Mind you, I've been by him through all of the turmoil of the last year and a half. (There's more, but if you want the details just comment below and ask.)
Lately(last couple of months), he's been such an ass to me. I had a guy I know tell me this just a few minutes ago:
"If your BF is being an ass, he's boning someone else. He wants you to break up with him so he doesnt feel guilty."
How often does this turn out to be true? I've only been in an couple of long term relationships, so I don't have that much experience with this sort of thing. Please Help!
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Okay, so the options that I gave were: A)Yay, often how it goes and B)Not usually.
My dear reader, how do YOU think this poll turned out? A whopping 65 VOTES say A and only 10 votes for B.
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I do want to clarify that he has never cheated on me before, too much of a conscience . However, I also know that he is a physical kind of guy, and has chicks hitting on him a lot more than he realizes. (Even times that I've been with him, he's gotten appreciative looks and stares.) This time apart would be hard on anyone.. so I don't know what to really think.
It's been ten days..with no contact from him. He's messaged my best friend, kimmy, once to ask if I've talked about him, but then immediately got offline when she tried to talk to him about it.
What do YOU think I should do?
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I'd like to give him the benefit of the doubt regarding the cheating thing, but his behavior regardless is not fair to you. If you're afraid of losing something important to you, you don't turn your back on it and ignore it.
Whether he is cheating or not - do you really want to spend so much time and energy on a person who is thoughtless regarding your feelings? There is no excuse for his behavior. You'll never figure it out. The only thing, I think, you should be doing - is returning the favor in kind - and move on. Tis not love - if there is no communication.
Do you read these things?! We should just email!
:) At least you never say 'first'! LMAO
I'll have to sit on your advice and think about it. I never rush into decisions or events, I mull over them for a long while.
LMAO! Yes, i do read these things!! I plan on responding back to the few comments I've gotten thus far before bed tonight :)
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